Online Romance Scams

Especially in the past few years, online dating and social media sites have become one of the most popular ways for people of all ages to connect with new friends and potential lovers. While many people have good intentions when meeting others online, scammers also increasingly use these sites and apps (ex. Facebook, Instagram, Words with Friends, etc.) to obtain money, gifts or personal information. 

When meeting people online, it is important that you always consider the possibility that the person you are chatting with is not the person they claim to be. The following are some “red flags” to help determine if the person who you are chatting with is a scammer:

• You are asked to send money, purchase gift cards, send goods (ex. a phone or computer) or even open a bank account before meeting in person.
• They are contacting you from thousands of miles away, have inconsistent information in their profile and/or they have an unrealistic photo.
• You are asked to move the conversation outside of the dating website to a messenger app (like Hangouts or WhatsApp), phone, text or email.
• They ask you for personal information such as your bank account, credit card number or Social Security number.
• They express strong emotions toward you very early.

If you recognize any of these warning signs or suspect unusual behavior, report it to the website’s administrator and cease all communication immediately. If you have any questions, contact an AARP ElderWatch volunteer for information and assistance. 

For assistance please call 800-222-4444 ( in the Denver Metro Area please call 303-222-4444) or visit www.aarpelderwatch.org